http://markmanson.net/fuck-yes/
A great article which lays out something which should be simple for all of us. Yet, I know I am guilty all the time of wanting to be with people who didn’t want to be with me. Of stringing people along whom I don’t really want to be with. If you don’t think Fuck Yes to someone, then why waste your time on feelings which aren’t truly reciprocal, passionate or pleasing.
I recently had to say Fuck NO to the guy I had been seeing. More on that later, and the string of ridiculous and sensual sexual encounters I’ve been having with other guys. My old beau didn’t satisfy me. He didn’t want what I wanted. He told me he wasn’t sure if he would ever date me and yet for a moment I wanted to convince him to. Why convince someone who doesn’t want to be with you to be with you? Every time you’re tempted to do that, remember that there are guys out there that will. And if they won’t be with you, they at least won’t make a casual sex thing parade as a relationship because they’re total dipshits. And if all else fails, there’s always Tinder land of the DTF and also surprisingly good looking Greek guys with beautiful accents.
Read this, internalize it and respect yourself more in your future relationships. If it’s not a Fuck Yes, say Fuck No and go.
Whoa I just got a little cheesy, inspirational speaker on ya, my bad. Read it bitches (and brahs).
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